Hi. We’re Robbie and Jamie. We live in Boulder, CO. We teach practices that give you more access to skillful intimacy. Including hands on sexual mindfulness stroking, writing workshops, and relational practice.
Have you ever tried to learn math from a non-teacher math genius? It’s hard. Most of their knowledge is implicit, so they don’t know how to help in those places you get twisted up. When it comes to intimacy, you’re in luck. I’ve felt lonely and awkward for much of my life. I have walked away from SO MANY conversations feeling tortured because I wanted to connect but couldn’t find the way, and froze and said dumb things, or didn’t say much of anything. “Normal conversation” at parties is still complicated for me. I can do it, and enjoy it on a good day, but I want deeper. I still sometimes feel awkward, but I’m rarely lonely. The connection I have now, with myself and with people I love… is better than I hoped for.
We Believe
If something seems unworkable, there’s a mistake in your thinking/relating to it.
Orgasms are great, and they’re not the best part of sex.
Timers make sex hotter.
Bringing your pain and your desire into practice is the way forward.
The best practices put you in the neighborhood of pleasure.
Sex is good.
It’s ok to need help. You’re not supposed to be able to do it alone.